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Date: Jul 25, 2011 | Views: 212 | Comments: 0
Little is said about this vital competence, and yet every day we observe the progress of economy, technology and an accelerating pace of life. The skill to adapt makes it possible for us to keep with the fast-paced development of the world, achieve our goals and look optimistically to the future.
We used to live slowly. Today, people want to accomplish more because they are not satisfied with what they have, want to prove something to themselves as well as prove they are able to achieve something almost impossible, want to live at a high level. The world has so much to offer and it is hard not to wish making the most of it. To be always ready for constant efforts and have the courage to reach the objectives and develop yourself, you have to look at the world optimistically and believe in yourself. You can hide in the shadow of other people or behind the veil of your own complexes. It is also a way to adapt - an attempt to become invisible to others. If someone likes to live this way, he or she has a right to do so. However, you can live differently. Every day, you may be awakening the curiosity for the world and others. Nurture your inner child who wants to experience the joy of novelty.
What about failures? They happen to anyone in life, but it depends on us what meaning we confer on them. We can break down and be unable to come out of the defeat brooding on it all the time. This, however, inhibit our potential and belief in a brighter tomorrow. It is so much better to draw conclusions for the future and not dwell on the past. Accept what you have no influence on and take a new action with positive energy. We should also use more of our own creative ideas. Using the known patterns of thinking restricts us and becomes a barrier to self-development. Let us ensure that everything we do is consistent with our values. Sometimes it is better for us to choose the path where we may not achieve full satisfaction, but we do not do anything at the expense of others. Let us learn to choose those behaviors that will help us reach the objectives while incurring minimal losses. Many people find it difficult to adapt to the environment and the prevailing rules of the group because it would be a blow to their sense of freedom. They want to be different, distinct and individual so much as the operation among people becomes a problem. To create a satisfactory relationship with others, you need to switch your flexibility on. Stay in harmony with yourself, but do not forget about the needs of individuals or groups. You can always find a satisfactory solution for all. But for that you have to begin distinguishing between subordination and compromise: "Today we will carry out your proposal, tomorrow we will do as I suggest." Require not only from others but give also something back.
Sometimes we are unfairly treated because we come across different people. There are many situations in which we can not get things done our way. Those include, for example, misunderstandings which occur in the professional relations between an employee and employer. This is particularly evident when everyone insists on his or her own way or idea which only leads to a sharp dispute. Avoiding conflicts is difficult. However, it is usually the case that you will not carry your point against the employer. This is exactly what happens in Pozycjonowanie Poznan agency I work with. The boss organizes brainstorming but never takes into consideration the suggestions of others. When we see that the exchange of opinions will not bring a constructive solution, we can always refrain from further comments. Not talking about something does not mean lack of your own opinion on the matter. The trick is not to conform to others at any cost, not to destroy or lose your own self or personality. Handling failures as well as successes depends on our ability to adapt. You need to care about your own boundaries and respect for yourself, but you should not forget about showing respect for others. Life creates unpredictable scenarios. One day we are someone's employer, the other day we can become his or her employee. If we believe that we are a more valuable person than others, one day we may face rejection and loneliness. In life not everything is going our way. We have to learn to function so as not to be frightened by change. Let treat any adversity as a challenge to be met. Let's start with optimism and courage to approach new projects, and over time we will reap the fruitful harvest. Perhaps in the future we will look at our achievements, which once seemed beyond our reach, with satisfaction. The world rushes and we try to keep with the pace.